| To those of you who are genuine and honest and NOT total flakes, I invite you to read on ... Top Dad, a native Chicagoan who just moved back to the west burbs of Chicago from Colorado looking for play & NSA fun, but MOST of all, a LTR. I PREFER WORDS TO GROPES ... so, say something. Sex is great. I love sex. And I'll fuck a boy for fun any day. But, I want more than a hook up. I'm a Total Top looking for my total bottom. There's no chance of me flipping, vers guys. Sex is not everything, but it is important, so we're fools if we do not focus on compatibility both in AND out of bed. I am 54 years old, good looking, not bad shape for my age, but NOT a muscle Daddy, 5'9', 170, light brown hair with grey, killer blue eyes (so everyone tells me), a hairy chest, 34' waist and a pretty terrific 7.5' cut cock with a big mushroom head. I like affectionate, sweet and tender sex and I like rough, hard, kinky sex. Everything from cuddling to Leather. It is important to understand that my ideal partner does not have to be into everything I am into, though. So, don't let anything like that scare you off. As long as we connect with what we do like, I don't need the whole range. My interests include travel (love to explore new places), dining out, theatre, movies, TV (I'm a 'Law & Order' junkie), animals ... especially dogs ... intelligent conversation, games, curling up together to watch a dvd, and good friends. I spent 25 years working in the professional theatre and now work in hospitality. Someone who will join me for a glass of wine over dinner is cool, but not required. Friends and family are VERY important to me and I am fiercely loyal to people who are in my life. Not interested in liars, thieves, flakes or game players. I don't demand of anyone that which I will not also give, so complete openness and honesty has to be a two way pledge. I value brains and a sense of humor ... they are both essential and are very sexy qualities to me. Humor is what gets us through anything life has to throw at us. I am also interested in someone with some level of interest in culture ... the arts are what civilize us. Since I have a Dominant nature when it comes to sex, I get along best with bottoms who have a submissive nature in bed (though this is NOT required) and who like to please their Top Man. That submissiveness can bleed into other areas of life or can end with sex. I am most attracted to non-self-centered people without attitude and who have a basic sweetness and playfulness about them. My ideal partner is a total bottom who encompasses the interests and qualities mentioned above. I love young, submissive bottom boys for sure, but 'boy' is as much a frame of mind as anything else. I am no one's sugar Daddy, though. My son also has to be a world class cuddler, too, who feels at home resting his head on my chest. My idea of heaven is fucking my partner and then spooning after ... drifting off to sleep with my arms around him and my cock still inside of him. It just doesn't get better than that. If your idea of heaven is being on the receiving end of that, we're off to a good start. You should be attractive and height/weight proportionate. You don't have to be perfect or an adonis at all, but I'm not into extreme body types. I'm not perfect myself, but I am a good looking man in average to decent shape. If any of this sounds good to you, send me an email. If you don't have pics in your profile, don't count on a reply. Tell me about yourself ... I've revealed quite a bit here and would appreciate the same in return. Be prepared to write a bit and get to know one another via regular email before talking on the phone. |