| Athletic, caring, detail-oriented, thoughtful, impulsive, sensual, sexual, physical, quick, whimsical, questioning, affectionate, insightful, oblivious, contradictory, modest, stubborn, optimistic, opinionated, non-judgmental, helpful, quirky, spiritual, trusting, curious -- in no particular order and not in equal measure every day. And having said all that, all I am looking for is a serendipitous connection. To start with. I have to add as well that generally I am attracted to energetic younger men (30's-40's) who are up to the challenge. Not to say older or younger can't interest me, but if you're older you have to be very energetic, open and alive and if you're younger you have to be smart, quick and mature. So go for it. However, fair warning. the next time some hot guy tells me that I don't look old enough for him I may do something socially unacceptable. Who ever said that older had to be 'old'? Finally, if you say that you're discreet (or 'discrete' -- please look it up; it's not the same at all) we probably won't match up well. I'm out and don't live a life that's limited by my sexual orientation. I respect others' choices, and a man who took 40-some years to figure it out himself can hardly criticize anyone else, but it won't work with me. And I am not the least bit averse to simply enjoying the company of another man. 'nuff said? |