| I could write about what I want in a person for a relationship, but what I want and what I fall for may very well be two different things. Friends, that would be important. I'd like to get to know him over a nice meal with a nice wine. I'd like for it to be someone I couldn't wait to hop in bed with yet someone I could respect enough to know that will happen when and if the time is right. Someone that makes my knees shake and sends chills up and down my spine (talk about a hopeless romantic - now I know that ain't gonna happen, but still, it would be nice.). I'm not really sure what I am looking for and I don't want to set the bar too high, neither do I want to set it too low. Like everybody else 'I'll know when I see him' - maybe. He would be someone who understands 'social graces', someone I'd be proud to introduce to my friends and someone that knows what is going on in the world around him. Me -- I enjoy a variety of things. I know how to plow a field and design a web site. Love music, my preference leans toward pop/smooth jazz, rock n' roll (what can I say, I grew up with Elvis) oldies, big bands. I entertain myself on the organ (electric, and the other one too! : >) and sing when I'm happy. I'm a pretty good cook, enjoy dining out, dancing, having friends over for dinner, cocktails etc. I'm fairly handy when it comes to fixing stuff, like sports, biking, rafting, skiing - try to work out 2 to 3 times a week. There is more, but I gotta keep some surprises! Meanwhile - - - That takes care of the relationship part of this scenario - now, for the lust part, as long as you are 'in shape', reasonably pleasing to the eye (beauty is in the eye of the beholder) and other parts, I guess any Tom, Dick or Harry would do and if they ain't around I guess any Peter would do! After all, I may be 'older' and 'wiser' but I still get horny and lonely and romantic and wanna F - - - (as I ride off into the sunset). Want to ride with me? I would prefer a LTR, but who knows when or if that will happen so until then, 'I can resist everything except temptation!'! As Mae West said, 'When I'm good, I'm very, very good but when I'm bad, I'm even better!'. |